Last week, I lost a very dear aunt. During the last few days, posting articles was therefore rather difficult.
Patricia was my father’s sister and the kindest person I have ever known.
Her life was a love story. She met her husband before World War II. He went overseas and waited for D-Day. He and my aunt wrote to each other.
Somehow, my uncle survived D-Day. It was like a miracle. Bodies were falling all around him, but he was not even wounded. He and other survivors carried on to liberate other countries. When I think of all the lives lost because of a dictator, including thousands of German lives.
Roland and Patricia married soon after my uncle returned to Canada. They were provided with a veteran’s house where they brought up their family. They never left that little white house.
My cousins and medical helpers looked after my aunt, at home, during a long illness. Roland and a daughter were her main caregivers.
There was a lunch after the funeral. I lived outside Quebec during most of my life and had never met my cousins’ children, except one.
My poor uncle! He and Patricia had been together for more than sixty years in their little white house.
barbaramonier said:
I am so sorry for your loss, Micheline; and your short tribute is so lovely. Child with Dove is one of my all-time favorites.
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michelinewalker said:
She was so kind. She always smiled. She never got angry. She accepted people as they were. What will my uncle do? They were everything to one another and so supportive of their children. Thank you Barbara.
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justhappeneduponthis said:
There is a sense of emptiness. But there is also a heritage and love lives on.
http://momentsmidstream.blogspot.ca/2010/07/feel-of-wood.html
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michelinewalker said:
We have known kindness itself and will never forget. I believe this is the highest of achievements. She was totally devoted to her family and simply good.
Thank you.
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Gallivanta said:
This is sad news. I am sorry for your loss. What a wonderful love story.
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michelinewalker said:
They were so devoted to one another. It will be very difficult for my uncle. She was everything to him. He insisted on looking after her until two days before her death. Nurses went to their house to do what my uncle could not do. It’s a wonderful love story. Thank you for writing Gallivanta.:)
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Mélanie said:
RIP… émouvant hommage, Micheline… si devant la vie nous ne sommes pas égaux, ne le sommes TOUS devant le néant… it must be very hard for your uncle to survive her… whenever our loved ones leave for good, slowly or suddenly, inspite of their physical absence, they continue to live in our hearts… ❤
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courage, sérénité et amicales pensées, Mélanie
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michelinewalker said:
Chère Mélanie,
Il y a parmi nous des gens simples et humbles. Ils n’ont jamais fait de mal à qui que ce soit. Ils n’ont eu que des pensées généreuses. Ils n’ont pas de préjugés et leur porte nous est ouverte. Je m’intéresse beaucoup à eux. Ils s’indignent bien sûr lorsqu’ils voient des terroristes brûler vif un homme innocent et ils partent combattre les Hitler. Ce ne sont pas des mous. Mais ils sont bons. Ils ne disent aucun mal des autres et ne se vantent jamais. En ce moment, c’est mon oncle que je plains. Il a beaucoup aimé ma tante et elle lui manquera. La vie n’est pas facile.
Je te remercie de tes bonnes pensées et je te dis mon amitié. ❤ 🙂
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