Yesterday, my nephew François took me to see my brother Jean-Pierre. He is hospitalized in the very large building I showed in an earlier post.
When we arrived, a priest was giving him the Last Rites. The priest invited all of us to kiss him and leave him a message. No one knows how long he will live, but he is in a room for the dying.
My brother is very weak. He can barely lift his head from the pillow and he cannot sit in bed without the help of three persons, one for each arm and a person who rearranges his pillow.
We stayed with him the entire afternoon and the little group returned to the hospital in the evening. I stayed home. I don’t want to know how much we paid in parking fees, but if members of his family did not help my brother, he would require the services of at least one professional twenty-four hours a day. A nurse came in to give him morphine and she obviously kept an eye on us, but he wasn’t alone.
Good News
I have good news. Quebec doctors were becoming an aristocracy:
“On Wednesday, an independent report commissioned by Quebec’s Health and Welfare Commissioner found that physician salaries had doubled between 2005-15, while the hours doctors spent with patients declined.”
Why Quebec doctors have rejected a pay rise
By Robin Levinson-King, BBC News, Toronto
8 March 2018
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-43336410
However, here is what doctors themselves did in late February 2018.
We, Quebec doctors, are asking that the salary increases granted to physicians be cancelled and that the resources of the system be better distributed for the good of the healthcare workers and to provide health services worthy to the people of Quebec, the letter posted on 26 February states
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ksbeth said:
hugs
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michelinewalker said:
Thank you very much. One feels so helpless.💕
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AT SUNNYSIDE - WHERE TRUTH AND BEAUTY MEET said:
Words are never adequate in such a sad time, but you and your brother and those who love you both remain in my thoughts and prayers. {{{{Micheline}}}}
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michelinewalker said:
I thank you Debbie. My brother is accepting death, which helps all of us. It the human condition. But we are there for him. Love, Micheline
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AT SUNNYSIDE - WHERE TRUTH AND BEAUTY MEET said:
Much love to you, dear one.
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michelinewalker said:
He has died and death was merciful. Thank you for your loving thoughts. Life is as fragile as it is precious. Love, Micheline
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AT SUNNYSIDE - WHERE TRUTH AND BEAUTY MEET said:
{{{{{{Micheline}}}}}}
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michelinewalker said:
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derrickjknight said:
I hope this doesn’t take too much longer XX
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michelinewalker said:
Dear Derrick, Death can be merciful. So we all hope this will end very soon. Family project # 1 is Jean-Pierre. The hospital is putting a little bed for one of us in his room. Jean-Pierre is accepting death, but he will not die alone. I can’t believe what Quebec doctors have done. They are not accepting an increase in salary. People could no longer find doctors. I settled for a public clinic where patients are seen by a supervised intern. When my intern left, he asked his supervisor to take me as a patient. His supervisor did. Thank you for your kind words. Let’s hope this doesn’t last.
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michelinewalker said:
Derrick,
My brother died last night.Death was merciful. Love, Micheline
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derrickjknight said:
Thank you, Micheline. I send you my thoughts XX
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michelinewalker said:
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Xena said:
My condolences to you and your family.
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michelinewalker said:
I thank you. We thank you. My brother had accepted death and he is no longer suffering. We are here briefly. My kindest thoughts.
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Colltales said:
I’m really sorry for your loss, Micheline. I gathered you too were close and how hard it must’ve been to you. Please take solace with the fact that his life will be remembered and praised as a most positive one to everyone he met or who got toc know him through you. May the good memories you two shared be about love and understanding. Peace to you and your loved ones.
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michelinewalker said:
Wesley, He is no longer suffering, which is a blessing, and because he seemed to be dying, my sister-in-law and my niece spent the night with him. The hospital provided little beds. He died surrounded by his family. We’ve suffered a loss, but he lives on in his children and grandchildren, and in our thoughts. The message he left is clear: be good, understanding, compassionate and serve your community! I’m pleased we had a chance to hug him and leave a final message of love. Now, life goes on… My brother’s son, François, will be looking after me until I fly away. He is doing what his father asked him to do. All’s well. Thank you for being with me and with my brother. Again, all’s well. Take good care of yourself. Micheline
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experienceofthinking said:
Un saluto e un abbraccio a tutti voi da Venezia.
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michelinewalker said:
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