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I told you that my brother Jean-Pierre was about to undergo another course of chemotherapy. He will not. Nothing can be done to save his life. It would have to be a miracle.

Jean-Pierre, lower right
In the background, left to right, we have Thérèse (who may be stroking one of our black cats), my great grandmother Philomène, mémère Pomerleau, in her nineties, and my sister Diane. In the foreground, sitting next to me, is my brother Jean-Pierre, blue-eyed, blond, and wearing glasses. We lived in an old and very large brick house. We did not have hot water. Grand-maman Philomène, my father’s maternal grandmother, would take us into the forest to gather herbs she used to make medications. She was of French descent. We never met my father’s Irish grandmother, but Jean-Pierre was with me when we went to Massachusetts to meet my father’s father and Nanny, the woman whose house and farm he had bought and where he invited her to stay for the rest of her life. My grandmother would not move to the United States. I believe she divorced my grandfather. My father, his brother, and two sisters were brought up by their mother and Philomène, who earned their living as a midwife and pharmacist. She was an assistant to the village doctor. Their house sat between a railway and a river. The train left a supply of wood and coal, that my father would pick up. I never asked where the family got their water. The house is still there, but I don’t think a train runs by, just the river.
I can’t believe that nothing can be done to save my brother. He’s lost about sixty pounds (27.2 kilos) and he is still losing weight. A few months ago, he was prescribed antibiotics. My brother has a beautiful rich voice: bass-baritone.
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I’m so sorry Micheline. I can’t think of anything so heart wrenching at this moment than what you may be going through, even as I too lost a dear brother years ago. I just hope you two find the solace and comfort of having shared an inspiring life and healthy family ties and still remain positive, but I know that it’s a tough time to you and your loved ones. My heart goes out to you. Count on us for anything.
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We thought another course of chemotherapy would cure him. But it seems nothing can stop that cancer. It’s everywhere. If our parents were still alive, they would be devastated. Jean-Pierre is a good person who raised three good children. I’ve told him that there was no finer accomplishment and that he had to be very proud of his life. I’m still hoping for a miracle, but we’ve been told that this was the end. We’ll keep him comfortable. Thank you for writing. Love, Micheline
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My heart, thoughts and good vibes are with you and him, Micheline.
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That is very generous on your part. I can’t believe what is happening. It seems a mistake, but it isn’t. Take care, Micheline
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Sending thoughts for you and your family during this difficult time.
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Thank you for your kind thoughts. We can’t believe what has happened. This cancer has been like wildfire. We will be with him every step of the way. There’s a future beyond. Love, Micheline
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I am so sorry to hear about your brother. It is devastating when the body is attacked by something that we cannot control nor stop. The feeling of helplessness is depressing. Here’s hoping that his final days in this realm are filled with love and yes, I do believe in miracles and have prayed for your brother.
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I also believe in miracles, but his cancer has spread to his spinal cord. You’re right about the helplessness. I would like to spare him a premature death, but he has an aggressive and rapid cancer. One hates to see a good person taken away. We’ll take good care of him until the very end. There are times when we need angels. Thank you for writing. It’s very kind of you. Micheline
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Micheline, I am very sorry to hear this latest news about your brother. Love Amanda
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Thank you Amanda. We thought he would survive, but not this cancer. We will be with him. I thank you for writing. Love, Micheline
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So sorry, Micheline. I send my good wishes for this final stage
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I thank you Derrick. My brother’s death will be a great loss to his children. I didn’t know that cancer could be so invasive.
But it is. They will relieve the pain and we will be around him. Best regards, Micheline
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Micheline,
I’m so sorry to hear of your brother’s plight. No matter our age, the thought of losing a sibling is always devastating. I don’t have first hand experience, but I feel your pain. — YUR
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Thank you. My brother will now be living on pain-killers. That cancer is so aggressive and invasive that it tells how fragile human life can be. We can do no more than comfort him. It’s the human condition. I thank you for writing. It’s very kind of you. Keep well.
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I am sorry for your situation. I understand how precious brothers are. My own brother, only 56, is also ill. Looking at the picture of your family as children – my heart breaks for you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you for peace and comfort.
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I thank you for your kind words. Would that he were not in pain. Doctors will attempt to keep him comfortable. That is all they can do. Life is fragile. Keep well, Micheline
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